What does that actually mean though?

A respectful male will not pursue what is not his to pursue. Such a male will not pursue other options while in bond with the subject of his bonded affections… translation… he will not cheat on or look to cheat on his significant other.

When in the pursuit of a female, a respectful male will be a man of his word. His transparency and authenticity provides all parties involved clarity. That’s a form of leadership a female greatly respects.

If playing the field, such a male will clearly state that’s his intentions. If solo or serial monogamy is his agenda, he will clearly state so. Then, keep to his word. Same for if he’s agreed to be exclusive with one female.

That degree of clarity instills confidence and respect in the females who need to know what they’re involved with. Simply put, the male who wants to get the girl is not about playing games to get laid. He’s upfront, above board, and true with the pursuit of getting the girl.

Note: Playing games is not about getting the girl. Playing game is about getting laid… focused solely about the dick. Don’t get it twisted. Leave the game for players. Keep the score straight… understand that dick is not equal to relationship… no matter what is being said. In the game… it’s all about the dick. Who has it, who gets it, who uses it. Nothing more, nothing less. If you get that twisted, you will get played. Females can play the game as good as any male.

Now that you’ve got the basics about getting the girl…

Most males forget that females are able to think for themselves. They have options. They have choice. They have a say. Just because you approach them does not mean that they have to say yes. Some females require a bit of demonstration of commitment. Sadly, many males assume that is game playing.

No. A smart male understands the need for validation and certification. Provide the female with proof that they can trust you to be a man of of your word. Invest in the process. Secure her allegiance.

In the event a male hears a definitive no, he respects the no. No means No. Keep it moving. There are plenty of fishes in the sea. You need not focus to the point of delusions on one. With 7 billion people on the planet, there are 3.5 billion females. You’ve got options. So does she.

Even when the guy has got the girl, she still has a perfectly functioning mind. Let her use it. Learn to understand it. Learn to work with it. You’ll be surprise how smart it is… and how much of it she’s willing to put to good use for your happiness when you respect her abilities to use her own mind. Cultivate her smarts. Let her feel that you value her thoughts and welcome her contribution. That feeds her sense of loyalty to you. Remember, most males aren’t that bright to do that… and if you’re doing that for her, you’re the rare gem she’s been looking for.