For crying out loud, fellas, act like you respect yourself!!! Like seriously. Man up! Act responsibly, be accountable. Leave childish ways behind when you’re with your lady. Like enough already!

Good men out there suffer enough because of you stupid jerks out there. Grow up!

now that the vent and rant is over… back to getting the girl

Get to know the mind of the lady you’re pursuing. Connect with the mind. Cherish the mind. Do romantic things to the mind. Once the mind accepts you as her man, the body follows. All that submission stuff you crave will not happen until you get her mind. Most males will shower compliments about the body, lavish the body with gifts, and forget to lock the mind’s focus.

It is not difficult for a female to lock her mental focus on one male while accepting the lavish treatment of her body from another male. Example:

Female A is with male A. Male B captures her mind while male A only focus on his own needs while sparingly treating her body with thoughtless gifts. (what do you mean thoughtless… isn’t buying a box of chocolate or a teddy bear thoughtful?)

As soon as the male B begins to nourish female A’s mind… she will start planning her exit strategy. As soon as male B captivates both her mind and pampers her body… male A is history. Don’t matter that male A can buy a bit fancier gifts. Ever seen a couple and you’re wondering why that pretty a lady is with that average a guy? He’s got her mind and her body followed.

Word to the wise.

Wait… there is more…

Sure, there is a lot more. This blog post won’t cover it all today. But, on this Wolf Wednesday, the singular most important thing to keep in mind… be the man you’re supposed to be.

Most males will front a good talk/act. Females these days read right through that and lose respect. Be true to yourself. Let your integrity and honesty to yourself select out the females worth your time seeing.

Here’s how that works. Females don’t like wasting their time, no matter what your ego thinks based on how they shop at the mall. If a female sees you and thinks you’re not worth her time, she won’t give you time. If you’re being truthful about yourself, then, she will self-select herself out of your list…(if she knows you’re not a good fit)… preventing you wasting her time and your time.

This now leaves the women who are actually interested in you. The real you. These are the ones you can pursue. These are the ones who will let you get them. Stay true to yourself.

Before wrapping up though…