The future is all bright and rosy. Well, depends on the glasses one wears. Whatever the case, making a list often helps people keep track of what they want in the future. So the productivity gurus say anyway.

In all seriousness, lists do work and help keep the mind focused on what tasks to tackle going forward. The same can be said for what one will settle for or aspire to have.

Today, no top 5 list of anything. No top 10 list of anything. Just cruelly teasing out a concept to be created for the blog in coming months. Yes, cruel of me! I know.

So, while Santa makes his list… and checks it twice, let’s look at some fictional lists that young pups want to have when they become lone wolves. (until they learn it’s best to be in a pack… but that was covered in a prior post)

Making a List

Most Guys Think They Want…
Most guys want – sex
Most guys want – power
Most guys want – respect
Most guys want – sex
Most guys want – influence
Most guys want – sex
Most guys want – vigor
Most guys want – sex
Most guys want – status
Most guys want – freedom
Most guys want – sex
Most guys want – domination

Most Guys Think Gals Want…
Most Gals want – security
Most gals want – connection
Most gals want – peace
Most gals want – integrity
Most gals want – respect
Most gals want – conversation
Most gals want – to change man
Most gals want – to dominate man
Most gals want – a strong man
Most gals want – a yes man
Most gals want – nurturing
Most gals want – submission

Believe it or not… that list is totally wrong… well.. mostly… but yeah… mostly wrong.

What do Guys/Gals really want?

I could tell you.. but that would ruin all the future posts coming from this teaser… yes… cruel teaser.

So, a quick and brief hint….

Most gals and guys want the same thing.

The same exact thing!

The difference is how they go about getting it and what vehicle of choice they use to get that need met.

Wolf Wednesday

Next time you’re temped to say that women are crazy… or that men are nuts… remember… you both want nearly the same thing. Just approached from very different angles.

Breathe. Slow down. Look at it from a friendly perspective instead of an adversarial perspective. A common ground can be found.

Once you find it, you’ll be amazed at how sweet, sensual, cozy, intimate, hot, and majestic that place is.

Then, if you’re open to it, you’ll see how much of that zone is actually in your own control.

For those, in the future, who will want to binge on older Wolf Wednesday posts, they will be aggregated in groups on the portfolio section of the blog below. Just click on the image or title to access the table of contents of that group. Thank you for checking out the posts in real time and in binged review.