A few days ago, as of the writing of this post, I was treated to a wonderful surprise. Not yet sure what I done to deserve it, although I have my own theories. I was so pleasantly surprised I figured I’d break protocol and tease my readers with a short mention of this.

My lady took something I had nearly forgotten about and brought it to the surface. Let’s just say… pent up desires overflowed and a lot of heat got vented.

Honey, Surprise!

In my own very private world, things move along at a pace that is different from my imagination’s ability. With a career, children, long commutes, and writing for several blogs… to name just a few things… it’s often a priority to sleep than to play out fantasies.

That particular night, the understanding was that I was going to be the last one up and awake. So, no thoughts of any fantasies were top of mind. If anything, was going through my usual checklist to tame the roar of hunger that often happens when one is married to a fine sexy woman.

With my mind drifting towards a distant memory from a trip many moons ago, it became clear that I’d need a very cold shower to transition to sleep.

My curiosity peeked as I noticed that wifey was not going to bed or doing her usual ritual to go to bed. Being a gentleman who does not tell all, writing about the events of the night… won’t happen.

Suffice it to say, when wifey initiated her surprise, my initial thoughts was that she wanted to cuddle and talk. Cuddle she did appreciate, talk she did not do.

A part of me, unable to resist the call, decided to venture a little kink play. Wifey smiled the suggestive smile that implied she was waiting for me to get the hint.

Yeah. I got the hint indeed.

Long Story Short

I made sure she got her needs addressed. In full disclosure, I’m never fully satisfied with how well I meet her needs. I’m always trying to do better each day.

Then wifey announced that she was willing to explore more such kink play in the future. My heart swelled with emotions well beyond joy. Up to that point, I had been shy about venturing forward with such play. My imagination being more capable than our relationship’s abilities… for now.

I made a point of thanking my lady for surprising me so completely. I was deeply moved to be so cared for. I am deeply grateful for that showing of love.

So much so that I broke one of my rules and blogged about my personal life… in as vague details as my introversion will allow. Even that is an improvement from who I was years back when I first shared my initial interest in such play. Back then, I was too scared to assert confidently my desires. I’m very humbled that she remembered and delivered.

Honey… thank you! (yes, wifey does read this blog)

P.S. the attached photo is from a photoshoot I did with wifey the first time I had proposed such play… and didn’t end up playing. There were no photos from this recent memory… but it’s totally etched in my head for life though

addendum I am updating this post to say… I posted this late because wifey surprised me once more… so… enough of my self directed talk… feels like bragging anyway. Pix on next page.