If I do all of that… what’s in it for me…
Fellas, let’s be clear about something. Women have been making allowances for us since the beginning of time. Sadly, our track record has shown us to be far more selfish and destructive than we need to be, as men.
If we were doing our jobs as leaders of our relationships, we wouldn’t have so many women feeling oppressed around the world. We would not have women being so fearful of us when walking down the streets or being alone with us. (when women can feel safe around men they don’t know, that’s when civilization will have hit it’s all time peak best… until then… we’ve got so much work to do)
When men ask… “what’s in it for me” it’s a hallmark of the immature ego speaking. Of course there is a lot in it for you. A woman who prioritize you is better than diamonds, gold, platinum, oil, silver, and rubies combined.
When a woman is nourished and she blossoms, she takes care of her own. You.
I’m sure it feels great to come home to a stress free environment with your favorite televised program waiting for you and no “chatterbox conversations” on tap. Several men have testified to being treated like kings by their women. All because the woman feels special with you.
What’s in it for you? Your very sanity. Your growth. Your own satisfaction in your relationship with your sub. And in some cases, financial benefits filled with social bonuses.
Remember this simple old tale. “Men add, women multiply”. You give a woman peace she gives you peace and tranquility. Give her joy and she gives you joy and happiness. You give her grief and hell has no fury like a woman scorned.
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We can always dive into the legacies that women continue to create. That’s well documented and being shared more prolifically these days.
However amazing as that is, we men are not off the hook one bit. We’ve got our part to do. We’ve got to remove the shackles and burdens we baked into society to keep women down. We got to lift up our women in our lives.
The blessings that comes from being with a happy woman far out weights the best you can try to squeeze out of her through excessive control.
Women love to give freely. Extracting their gift by force not only creates resentment but sets up toxicity that’s not necessary.
In order to help our women blossom, we’ve got to listen closely. We’ve got to learn their language of love. We’ve got to train ourselves in order to be better for them… and ourselves.
The route of the lazy is often easy. But devoid of sufficiency.
The strength of a Dom comes from his willingness to do what others won’t in order to enjoy what others only fantasize about.
Most men fantasize about a woman who does whatever he asks of her. Those who have reached that luxury are the ones who invested so deeply and thoroughly that they know what to ask to get a yes from their women. They will never ask their women to do something that is beneath her, will hurt her, or needlessly traumatize her.
It’s work. It’s discipline. It’s aspirational. It’s life long. However, the trip is so worth it. Work with your lady. Help her grow. Help her blossom. And enjoy the fruits of your labor with a woman who is fully self-actualized and gives you credit for her blossoming. (vice versa as well)
There will be other posts along this theme to come later this month. As these new posts arrive, they will be listed below. Thank you for sharing and clicking like to posts you enjoy reading. It helps shape the future content you see as well as increase visibility of this blog.
A small selection of past posts will be mixed into the list below as well.
Until next time, Wolf Pack… engage beast mode and feed your lady your love.
Just because I care… - Guys got feelings to.
Just because they care/love you and put themselves last.. for you... does not give you a pass to love them less.
Wolf Wednesday returns... with a semi-poetic moment
Wolf Wednesday: The Walk - A chivalrous gentleman always adjusts his walk to match that of his lady.
When a lady is most happy, you can see it in her walk.. her stride.. but she also hides a lot with how she walks.
Musings on the way a lady walks on this Wolf Wednesday
Why we need a strong woman - Contrary to some noise in this world, we do need our strong women.
Besides every great man is a great woman
Don't get it twisted, you need us too... but.. this Wolf Wednesday... we want you to know... we need you.
And we need the strong variety of you.
Nurturing your lady so she can blossom - It's in a man's best interest to care for his lady. When she wins, he wins.
Doms know this. Subs expect this.
The world is better off when women are at their best.... when given a chance to be their best.
They don't need us(men) but they appreciate when we behave as gentlemen
WolfPack - engage beast mode!! celebrate and elevate your ladies!
Shallows of the Deep 