Defining a Dom – from Social Media

The patriarchy would like you to believe a lie about a man
That he’s always super strong and devoid of soft feelings
A lie that has damaged society
Traumatized many innocent women and children

The fallacy that a man is defined by brute strength
Able to set his own image and worship it
Expecting others to kneel before it
The absurdity of delusions of grandeur

Don’t you know, young man
You’re defined in the context of a woman
Birthed of one, raised by one, nourished by one
Without her, you’d be hard pressed to own a hard on

Rise, dear queens
Stop partaking in the lie
Rise and show the world
You define the man

Without you, who is he?
You give him liberty
You create his ecstasy
Crafting his delicacy

He foolishly believes, for some
That behind his greatness is a woman
When in fact, his greatness is permitted by a woman
The one who stands on her own, but also by his side

His dominance can’t live in a vacuum
He needs your permission to dominate
Your strength allows his rise
Your depth allows his greatness

You, dear queen, are his modus operandi
His reason for being
He lives to serve you
Because you stroke his ego to the fullest

Don’t believe me?
Come find out more on the blog
It’s really meant to be
A sub defines the measure of a Dom

Without her submission
His dominance has no elocution
Without her dedication, his armor lacks extra shine
Without her rules, he’s got no playground to trust

No matter the lust
Even if he fusses
Without your trust
His ego… go bye-bye it must

A man needs to evolve to his fullest stature on his own
He must stand correct before asking for your hand
And should the need arise, he must be able to bow to your hand
For his reign is nothing without your seal of approval

In order to play in circles of BDSM
A knight must have the permission of a lady
Her word, safe word or not, must be respected
That’s just the way of the Wolf

Words: Yours truly
Musing: Wolf Pack Revelations
The series: Wolf Wednesday – link in bio to the latest post.

  1. Wolf Wednesday – Introducing the Revelations
  2. The First Revelations Chapter 1 Verse 1

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The patriarchy would like you to believe a lie about a man That he’s always super strong and devoid of soft feelings A lie that has damaged society Traumatized many innocent women and children The fallacy that a man is defined by brute strength Able to set his own image and worship it Expecting others to kneel before it The absurdity of delusions of grandeur Don’t you know, young man You’re defined in the context of a woman Birthed of one, raised by one, nourished by one Without her, you’d be hard pressed to own a hard on Rise, dear queens Stop partaking in the lie Rise and show the world You define the man Without you, who is he? You give him liberty You create his ecstasy Crafting his delicacy He foolishly believes, for some That behind his greatness is a woman When in fact, his greatness is permitted by a woman The one who stands on her own, but also by his side His dominance can’t live in a vacuum He needs your permission to dominate Your strength allows his rise Your depth allows his greatness You, dear queen, are his modus operandi His reason for being He lives to serve you Because you stroke his ego to the fullest Don’t believe me? Come find out more on the blog It’s really meant to be A sub defines the measure of a Dom Without her submission His dominance has no elocution Without her dedication, his armor lacks extra shine Without her rules, he’s got no playground to trust No matter the lust Even if he fusses Without your trust His ego… go bye-bye it must A man needs to evolve to his fullest stature on his own He must stand correct before asking for your hand And should the need arise, he must be able to bow to your hand For his reign is nothing without your seal of approval In order to play in circles of BDSM A knight must have the permission of a lady Her word, safe word or not, must be respected That’s just the way of the Wolf Words: Yours truly Musing: Wolf Pack Revelations The series: Wolf Wednesday – link in bio to the latest post. #wolfpack #wolfwednesday #revelations #trust #bdsm #bdsmcommunity #romancewriter #musings #shallowsofdeep

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