Wolf Wednesday
If you’re going to go the philosophy of the wolf, take the time to know yourself. You can’t be of much good to someone else if you don’t know yourself first.
That is where the lone wolf part of the mythology makes sense. You’ve got to spend time understanding yourself, nurturing yourself, respecting yourself, and being nice to yourself before you can do that effectively for someone else.
Each wolf grows in stages. Not all wolves get up and are alpha dominant out of the gate. In time, they rise up the ranks of their circle. It’s work. It’s patience. It’s perseverance.
By the way, humans participate in many many circles. Just because you’re leading one doesn’t mean you lead them all. And just because you’re not leading in most doesn’t mean you can’t lead one very well
The biggest pack of them all is the human race. The smallest pack of them all is one man with his mate. (This blog will always refer to the mate as she… not for political or historical reasons either. Not ignoring the same gender packs. They are the smallest unit as well as the dual gender packs)
If one feels they can’t lead or man up and participate in a pack… accept it and don’t weigh a pack down. Go alone. Figure what you need to figure. Find your pack. Then link up. Not all packs are sexual. Not all packs are romantic. Not all packs are defined by general rules of society. All packs are build on two or more parties. Join one when you’re ready… but not before.
(note: being born human and being raise human means you’re part of a pack until you’re old enough to figure what pack you want to be a member of. During that transition, it may require going alone for a while. But in time, you’ll be part of a pack of some kind. Question is… will you be a valuable contributor or tolerated detractor)
P.S. if you’ve enjoyed this kick-off post… show your love with a like and/or comment. What would you like to see next? Leave a comment below 🙂 thanks
Happy Hunting Wolves!
For those, in the future, who will want to binge on older Wolf Wednesday posts, they will be aggregated in groups on the portfolio section of the blog below. Just click on the image or title to access the table of contents of that group. Thank you for checking out the posts in real time and in binged review.
Wolf Pack Sessions
Starting A Wolf Pack
A new project is gracing the blog. The Wolf Pack
We will be doing a few thoughts on Wednesdays and grow it into a thing.
Here are the humble beginnings of the Wolf Pack. Stay tuned for a lot more over the course of time. (click the image or title to read more)
Wolf Pack Formation
The call was answerd in the wild in 2017.
The Wolf Pack gathered to solve the question set forth by the counsel.
What makes a man… a man… and how is one a Dom.
The beginnings of Wolf Wednesday takes shape.
Wolf Pack Continuation
2018 was the second year of the Wolf Pack appearance on Wolf Wednesdays
The work was hard and the sessions interrupted by blizzards
Yet, the tribe continued to work. The definition of roles had to be hammered out.
A Dom and sub pairing has to be of equal worth and value
Wolves… let’s continue the work that has begun
Wolf Pack Expansion
The Wolf Wednesday Work continues in 2019 with greater ambition and motivation.
Calling all alphas to unite and bring strength to the counsel.
There are men and women who need to know the difference between a real and fake Dom.
Wolves… engage beast mode!
Shallows of the Deep 
Wow! Nicely done and well thought out. Multiple points that i think every man and woman should read. None of these relationships inside or outside a pack are minimal. None are one way streets or all give and or all take. Both need to be protecting the interest and success of the other. Men who lack any or all of the aforementioned characteristics need spend some time understanding themselves, learning, maturing and growing. If they are unable to build or gain these then they will crash and burn. They will destroy relationships in a grab for power which is transparent at best. The women will leave as they will be unfulfilled and feel empty, not worthwhile and misunderstood. Power is a true balance between men and women, even heightened in dominance relationship where the power and trust must be implicit and without question. If you don’t trust someone how you do willing grant control over your body, mind or soul? The online faux relationships are not real, they are not true, they are playing games. They are manipulating for pictures, time, money, emotions…protect yourself until you find a pack that accepts you and values you.
As for what I am looking forward to seeing is part of the games that are being played, some of the phrases or manipulations used from false men/alphas. How people can see and know the difference. How the power is truly granted and held.
Thank you for a wonderful post, I look forward to the next installment. Bravo yet again!!
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Thank you kindly. Very much appreciate your feedback as well as your beautiful contribution to the topic
Agree. It’s a balancing act for sure. One that takes time to perfect.
This series seems very promising to me. I’ve got plenty of ideas to flush out. Also looking to keep an engaging conversation going.
In the end, we all benefit from sharing our ideas. The pack gets stronger 🙂
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