Some time ago, I had some amazing chats with fans of this blog. Thank you so much for that! Today, sharing a little fantasy idea around the topic discussed.

Can you tell by the way a woman walks… how she feels about you? I’d love to know your thoughts in the comment section below as well.

Walking Special

The way a woman walks, it’s like magic to us fellas. It’s so smooth, so sensual, so sexy… even if she’s not trying.

Entire specialties have been built around the way a woman walks. There is a reason why the runways of fashion have specialized walking styles that enhances the effect of the ensemble on their models. It works.

Without taking into consideration the effects of heels, sneakers, flats, and the likes on how a woman walks, there are fundamental differences between how a man walks and how a woman walks.

Some have said that men walk by leading with their shoulders. Women, on the other hand, do the leading from their hips. You be the judge of that. Those who have had gender re-appropriation surgery have had to learn how to change and modify their walking styles to match that of their presented gender. The way one walks is very important to one’s gender identity.

The merit of such gender difference is not being debate today… but the idea of an androgynous gait has been proposed a few times on the internet. The jury is still out on that… and the discussion needs to be had.

Before Getting Sensual

Fellas. On average, we are taller than women. That’s just a side effect of puberty we have to live with. This presents a good physics challenge. Our longer legs afford us a longer stride in our gait. We cover more ground in one step than most women we encounter.

Please. Keep that in mind. Why?

If we do not adjust our pace to that of the lady we’re with (either because we’re trying to impress her or we’re already in a relationship with her) we can come across as insensitive and even as jerks by walking faster than she does.

Do not use the line “she just needs to keep up”… it’s a privileged chauvinistic paternalistic view that is not chivalrous or caring.

Just think back to how it felt to be on a long walk with your parents and they were in a hurry. You ran yourself pretty ragged trying to keep up with your parents. Not that men are parents to their women. But the physical demands of the pace mismatch can put your lady at a disadvantage if you’re unaware of this.

This plays a bigger role when the lady is wearing heels and is dressed to impress. Her gait shortens in heels. Her effort to keep up is increased. Don’t assume that because heels are fading from fashion that all women will ditch them in our current decade.

Bottom line, fellas, be mindful of your lady when walking with her. She does not need another excuse to think of you as an insensitive (fill in the blank). With the way women are empowered these days, loyalty has changed criteria. Just saying fellas.

The Ever So Sensual Sway

Something about how a woman moves just tugs at the heart of men. The sway lures us to feel all manners of good vibes. It doesn’t matter the body type. Each woman has a certain sway to her hips and motion to her locomotion that brings heat and spice to the life of the observer who is so drawn to her.

No… no… this doesn’t mean every guy is aroused by how a woman walks. Not at all. However, at some point in time, all straight men will become aware of the effects of a woman’s walk on him. Some can’t put a finger on it, others can. The result is still the same, she looks very sexy.

Depending on what the man likes to see or feel, the sway will mean different things to different guys. For some, it’s the melodic symmetry of how her whole body moves to an internal beat. For others, it’s the way the hips dance, sway, and bounce to the drumming beat of her heat. Yet, others find the life altering and life affirming heaves and o’s of bosoms calling for caressing and securing with hands wanting and waiting. Yet, others prefer the glamor of a crown of perfect hair moved by a sensual pulse generated from how she walks.

Let’s not forget the guys who rather hold the motion with their hands and cherish the life given through tactile sensations of moving hips, swaying lower backs, and oscillating shoulders… just to name a few.

The smooth motion, the efficiency of beauty, the gazelle’s grace, the balance of power, tension, relaxation, and sensuality all mixed in the sway that is feminine.

Of course, the mystery of it all… women can turn that on and off at will.

The switch factor

The woman who moves graciously on a dance floor lost in rhythms of love is very different from the lady who takes over the boardroom and unleashes power over her subjects. Her motion is different from the athlete determined to wring every ounce of power to beat the competition. Uniquely different from the fatigue at the end of work that contrasts with the elations that comes from a good spa treatment that’s different from the care of carrying a child.

Women embody the spice of life… variety… by the way they can change their sway to match their moods, needs, wants, desires, and purpose. Quite frankly, the over sexualization of the feminine form has made many women turn off their charm for the sake of peace of mind. Who can blame them.

This brings about the great importance of creating a safe space for women to be themselves. Free from judgment, free from harassment, free from pressure. The safe place where they can snuggle up to our chest and smile because they don’t have to be something else other than themselves.

Fellas, keep your lady feeling safe and secure and she won’t have to switch up on you and hide her beautiful sway. Teach other men not to jeer and leer… for in embarrassing them in the streets or work, you’re not respecting the power that generated the charming sway… their mind. It’s all about the mind for the woman. Without her mind’s blessings, the eloquence of her sway remains locked away and out of reach.

Wolf Wednesday

I can’t say women wish to sashay and sway for us. I’m not a woman. I do know this, women have learned to hide away their most sensual of gifts… the way they move. The primary reason is us. Too many fellas have not matured into men and guardians of their better half. We don’t look out for our women as good as we should… as a specie.

From the smallest acts of kindness and understand that is walking a bit slower with our ladies and letting them set the pace… to holding our drool for when it is appropriate to salivate over her. These patterns in the smallest of things do translate into the bigger issues of life such as equal pay, equal respect, equal opportunities.

When a woman feels empowered by her man to be herself, she no longer is interested in competing and beating her man. She just wants to be with her man and give him her best… because he has given her his best and created a safe place for her to be her best. Both with in that moment.

Some men fear that with the ever increasing rise of power in women, they will return the favor and crush us into servitude. Um… some might do that. But that’s not the feminine way. We fear the wrong thing. We won’t be losing the sway when we empower her to be herself and stay. We actually get more sway from her directed to us on purpose as a thank you for allowing her to be herself… safely… securely… respectfully.

When in the presence of the beautiful sway of a lady… let her be and count your blessings she allowed you to see her being herself. If you must approach, do so respectfully. Who knows, she may just augment her say and make your day. Just don’t clown her if she uses the option of not showing you more sway, because that’s her say not yours.

The leading alpha male is keen on giving his lady the right stage to be herself. For he knows, by allowing her to be comfortable in her skin, she wins… which means he also wins… and gets more of what drew him to her in the first place… all thanks to her sway.

 

 

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