A selection of social media shared musings for your reading pleasure below. Thank you for reading all of my thoughts. Greatly appreciate it.
Some of the images are a bit large… so… do scroll on to the bottom to ensure you see all the various musings that helped shape this blog post today.
When our kink isn’t their kink… (trilogy)
For those with a partner who doesn’t share your passion in kink… it can be a long road to travel. It’s a journey that tests your love. Challenges your chivalry. Wears you patience into bits. Requires constant self growth and self examination
Simply because it appears easy on our end doesn’t mean it’s easy for them. Other times… our excitement clouds our abilities to allow our mate to be themselves.
We eagerly try to convert them and show them the benefits of our kink. Ultimately. It’s our kink. No theirs. Any participation they do… is a huge show of love.
We have to honor that. Respect that. Cherish that. Praise that. Love that.
Jeans were for casual comfort. Heels are for dressing up. In her world, the two never mixed. In his world, it was a sexy prerequisite
She preferred no nylon, he thought the lack thereof was a no starter.
A sharp suit and tie made for a killer date look in his book. Time close together in comfort was her idea of a great date. He treasured other men salivating in want and unsatisfied cravings for his lady. She didn’t want the attention.
He didn’t care for her dressing to impress women while she couldn’t understand why he’d want her to dress just for him.
Cupid was not stupid when he brought him a fiercely independent woman to love. He had to humble himself. Learn to serve her before she could submit to him. He had to prioritize her needs over that of his kinks.
When she finally felt emotionally safe… playing his kinks stopped being a work demanded of her. Social media makes it look like heels and nylon is easy to incorporate but life isn’t always as it is photographed
Provide. Protect. Promote. Then she will bloom and your heart will be full in ways you didn’t know it could
To say… babe… you gotta fulfill my needs… is to be selfish.
The point is to share with each other… amazing experiences that enrich the relationship.
In trust as in love… respect is paramount. If your partner doesn’t want to play… do not pressure them to play.
Too many well intentioned women have been needlessly sacrificed at the mound of lust and selfishness.
Women who would have been amazing partners, lovers, warriors with another better qualified man
Being born male doesn’t make you a Dom let alone gives you rights to demand anything from a woman.
Her submission is a gift. Her playing in your kink is a gift. Her letting you play in her kink… is a gift as well.
When the two of you come together to create a wonderful experience… that’s when magic happens.
This trilogy was all about reminding us not to take our partners for granted when they give us what our souls desire. Let them know you value and treasure their efforts. With no expectations. Let them wow you.
Of course… it pays to listen and learn so as to know what to deliver. As the tastes and preferences do change
Until next time… love deeply… trust wisely… support infinitely… treasure optimally
No settling for less than respect in honorable ways
The Tweets
Trying something else new on the blog… for the sake of trying new things… Below will be a set of tweets that were written before the blog post went live. Hopefully it works out smoothly… (won’t remove the experiment even if it fails… at least not right away)
The Tweeted Musings
The RPMIndy Tweets
Extending the conversation on Twitter
The Shallows of Deep Tweets
Thinking as a writer about the creation of kinky content
Shallows of the Deep 
This post indeed enlightened my thoughts about kinking with your significant other or multiple participants. (One never knows as today’s day in age couples aren’t just two people anymore). I did enjoy the read as I am the kink to have my man participate for the most part of my ideas (smile) then there’s also the ones he doesn’t care to try or ic he does he may not want to try it again. It’s a big easier for the female to be the Dom of “kink” Bc I see it does turn him on w my multiple ideas. Now he initiates the idea on my dressing for others to compliment me Bc it’s that desire I see of turning him on knowing he’s taking me home and not that perso or people gawking @ me. I actually like it yet to remain in control of not allowing the person’s compliment of going too far. Sometimes I do understand those who don’t want to attract the attention Bc it can be a doozy of saying I’m takin and you may run into that aggressive person who fails to get it…I’m not into you. I loved the entire blogging on several topics introducing her of what may not be apart of something she chose to submit and fit in, while he too is super patient yet eager as that child hoping she soon will agree up meet his needs. I stopped waiting on him yet started feeling lets try things his way to see how that works for me of my not being too selfish and not using it as a strength Bc we fully communicate w each other. Sometimes you must understand their perspective and that’s it.
Thank you and until the next read of your many topics I’d love to view and comment.
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That’s so cool. The give and take. That is what relationships are all about
I’m glad that I inspire you. I’m also happy that you experiment as well. It’s a journey of discovery for sure
Look forward to your next response
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